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Understanding the Balance of Holding On vs Letting Go in Your Swing

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Understanding the Balance of Holding On vs Letting Go in Your Swing
By Tyler Ferrell · October 19, 2025 · 4:43 video

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One of the most confusing parts of the golf swing is the release. You may hear one great player talk about “holding on” to the angle, trapping the ball, and keeping structure through impact. Then another great player describes the exact same area of the swing as loose, free, and effortless. Both descriptions can be true. The difference is usually not in the motion itself, but in what part of the motion the player is reacting to. If you understand that balance—when you need to preserve structure and when you need to let the club go—you can make much better sense of your own swing, your ball flight, and the feels that will actually help you improve.

Why “holding on” and “letting go” can both be correct

At first, these ideas sound contradictory. How can a good release feel both firm and free? The answer is that the release is not one single event. It is a sequence.

In a sound downswing, you are not simply throwing the clubhead from the top, nor are you dragging it rigidly through impact. Instead, you are blending two things:

That is why one golfer may need the feel of “hold on longer,” while another needs the feel of “let the club go.” They are solving different problems.

If you release the club too early, the fix often feels like you are delaying the throw and keeping your hands ahead longer. If you hold the wrists too stiffly too late, the fix often feels as if the club is finally being allowed to swing, with softer wrists and more flow. Same release zone, different needs.

The difference between linear force and angular release

A helpful way to understand this is to separate linear motion from angular motion.

Think of linear motion as the handle and hands being pulled along their path. Think of angular motion as the clubhead swinging around due to the unhinging and rotation of the club. In good ball-striking, the club is typically transported into the delivery area with strong structure, and then the angular release happens later.

Many struggling golfers do the opposite:

That pattern often leads to inconsistent contact, poor low-point control, and unstable face delivery.

Better players tend to preserve the club’s angles longer, moving the handle and club into a stronger delivery position first. Then the clubhead releases later, which creates speed without losing control.

This is why a golfer who has always cast the club may feel as if a proper release is “held off” or “stiff” at first. In reality, they are not becoming too stiff. They are simply learning to stop throwing the clubhead too early.

What “holding on” really means

When good players talk about holding on, they usually do not mean locking the wrists and dragging the club through impact. They mean not spending the release too early.

This feel is often about getting into a better delivery position:

For a golfer who tends to cast, this can feel like you are pulling the club into the strike instead of throwing it. It may even feel more “contained” or “trapped” compared to your old motion.

That sensation is often useful because your old release likely happened too early. You are not trying to eliminate release. You are trying to move it later.

A good analogy is cracking a whip. If all the energy is spent too soon, the whip loses its snap where you need it. In the golf swing, if the clubhead is released too early, there is nothing left to organize at impact. By holding the structure a bit longer, you can release the club where it actually matters.

What “letting go” really means

On the other side, some golfers arrive in a decent delivery position but then never really allow the club to swing. Their wrists stay too rigid, and the motion through impact is controlled too much by the shoulders or arms pulling through.

For that player, the correct feel is often the opposite:

This golfer often looks as though they are dragging the handle through impact with a lot of tension. The club never fully swings past them in a natural way. The result can be pulls, face-control issues, and contact problems because the release is being restricted rather than sequenced.

When this player finally makes a better motion, it may feel almost too loose. They may say the wrists feel floppy or passive. But that is often just because they are comparing it to a release pattern that was overly rigid.

Again, the feel is relative. If your baseline is too much tension, the correct motion will feel much freer than it actually is.

The role of the wrists through release

The wrists are central to this discussion because they are where many golfers either spend the release too early or lock it up too late.

In a good release, the wrists do not remain frozen through impact. They are responding dynamically. As the club swings through, the wrists move into the release pattern rather than being held in one fixed condition.

That does not mean you should consciously flip the clubhead. It means the wrists need enough freedom to allow the club to do what it is supposed to do.

If you are too tense in the hands and wrists:

If you are too loose too early:

The goal is not “tight wrists” or “loose wrists.” The goal is the right amount of structure at the right time.

Why this matters for clubface control and ball flight

Your release pattern has a major influence on how the clubface arrives at the ball. If the release happens too early, the clubface and loft can become difficult to manage. If the release is held off too much with tension, the face may stay too open or become manipulated by the body and arms in inconsistent ways.

This is one reason release conversations can get so confusing. A player who flips the club may need to feel more shaft lean and more “hold.” A player who drags the handle with a stuck-open face may need to feel more freedom and rotation of the club through impact.

In both cases, the clubface is being affected by how the release is sequenced.

From a ball-flight standpoint, poor release patterns can contribute to:

When you get the balance right, the clubface becomes easier to organize because the motion is more natural and better timed. You are no longer trying to save the swing at the bottom.

Why different golfers need opposite feels

This is the most important practical point: the right feel depends on your pattern.

Two golfers can watch the same video on release and walk away needing opposite cues.

If you release too early

You will probably benefit from feels that emphasize:

To you, the correct motion may feel more structured, more covered, or more held off.

If you hold the wrists too stiffly through the bottom

You will probably benefit from feels that emphasize:

To you, the correct motion may feel more fluid, more passive, or even slightly loose.

This is why copying another player’s feel without understanding your own swing can backfire. The same verbal cue can help one golfer and hurt another.

How to use video to identify your pattern

One of the best ways to sort this out is to look at your swing on video. You are trying to determine where the release problem actually occurs.

Signs you may need more “holding on” into delivery

If that is your pattern, you likely need to train a later release rather than a freer one.

Signs you may need more “letting go” through impact

If that is your pattern, you likely need to stop controlling the club so much through impact and allow the release to happen.

A useful way to think about the release

A simple way to organize this concept is:

  1. Create structure on the way down
  2. Arrive in a good delivery position
  3. Then allow the club to release

That sequence blends both ideas. You are not throwing the club from the top, and you are not freezing the wrists through impact. You are preserving the conditions that matter, then allowing speed and release to emerge at the right time.

In that sense, the release is both disciplined and free. The discipline is in when you release. The freedom is in allowing the release once you are in position.

How to apply this understanding in practice

As you practice, resist the urge to chase a universal release feel. Instead, diagnose your pattern first and choose feels that solve your actual problem.

Use this process:

  1. Film your swing from face-on and down-the-line.
  2. Check your delivery position. Are you throwing the club early, or are you arriving in good shape?
  3. Watch the strike area. Do the wrists release naturally, or do you drag the handle with tension?
  4. Choose the feel that matches your pattern, not the one that sounds best.
  5. Monitor ball flight and contact. Better release balance should improve low point, face control, and strike consistency.

For most golfers, a good general guideline is to keep the wrists soft enough to respond but not so loose that the club is thrown away early. That balance tends to produce a more reliable bottom of the swing, cleaner contact, and better clubface control.

Ultimately, the release is not about choosing between holding on and letting go. It is about knowing when to do each. Hold on long enough to deliver the club with structure. Let go enough to allow the club to release with speed and freedom. When those two ideas work together, the strike becomes much easier to control.

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